Every day 137 women and girls are killed by intimate partners. In 70-80% of domestic homicides, no matter which partner was killed, the man physically abused the woman before the murder. And yes, absolutely, men can also be victims of domestic abuse and h


A Measure of a Man

Close your mouth.
Lower your eyes.
Be submissive,
you f*&king bitch.

When dominance is required
as proof -
enrichment of your ego,
a performance of power -
then you are no man at all.

Once, I might have pitied you.
Perhaps you were broken as a child.
That is an explanation,
not a life sentence.

Stop using excuses.
There is no justification
that can wipe away
the choices you are making.
This is on you -
not your parents,
not your grandparents,
not the women,
not whomever you choose
to lay your cruelty upon.

There is no truth
in calling yourself
a good Christian man
when you lose your temper
because she refuses
to cower.

Do better.
Be better.
Choose to be a good man.

A good man is kind.
He protects and guides,
not with power,
but with love.

That’s what Jesus did.
Be like Jesus.

You always have a choice.




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Written on 2026-01-13 at 20:13

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good one
2026-01-14